ETIQUETTE OF VISITING THE SICK

Mercy and Compassion
Visiting the Sick
Bond of Love
Etiquette is essential!
Avoid discomfort
Du'as of the Pious

One of the many beauties of Islam is that it is a way of life that corresponds with a human being's natural disposotion in every aspect of life.  Amongst these things that a human naturally feels is mercy and compassion for the sick.  Hence, Islam has placed a great deal of emphasis on bringing these qualities into our lives.  The Holy Prophet Peace and blessings upon him stated in one hadith:
“Show compassion to those on earth, the One in the heavens will show mercy upon you.”

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Visiting the sick is from amongst those responsibilities and duties that a Muslim must fulfil.  Imam Bukhari has transmitted a hadith in his Sahih from Sayyidina Abu Huraira May Allah be pleased with him that our beloved Prophet Peace and blessings upon him said:
“The rights of one Muslim over another Muslim are six.”  Someone asked, “What are they?”  The Holy Prophet Peace and blessings upon him replied, “When you meet him you greet him with salaam (peace), when he invites you, you accept his invitation, when he consults you in a matter, you give him sincere advice.  When he sneezes and praises Allah, you ask Allah to have mercy on him.  When he is sick, you visit him and when he passes away you accompany him i.e. you join in his janazah (funeral).”

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These actions create love of bonding within the Muslims.  Furthermore, the Muslims in essence are like one body as mentioned in an authentic narration of Rasulullah Peace and blessings upon him.  If one part of the body hurts the entire body hurts. Our consolation will not take away the sickness from our Muslim brother or sister, but it may lift his spirits and make him happy.
Just as our Master Rasulaullah Peace and blessings upon him has guided us on how to conduct ourselves in every sphere of our lives, he has also guided us regarding the method of visiting the sick.

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While fulfilling this revered act, the vistor should keep some things in mind so as to discharge his obligation in a successful manner.  The visitor should call before hand to find out if it would be appropriate to visit at a specific time or to find out when it would be best to visit.  The visit should be brief so that the ill person does not become burdened by the presence of the visitor.  Sheikh Abdul Fatah Ghudda the renowned scholar of Syria writes in his book, ‘Islamic Manners’:
“The length of the visit should not be longer than the time between the two sermons of Friday.  In this respect, it was said that the visit should be long enough to convey salaams and wishes, to ask the sick how they are doing, to pray for their recovery and to leave immediately after bidding them farewell.”

Also, one should try to avoid asking the details of the illness or discomfort the sick by talking about the illness.  He should pray for the sick, for verily the rewards for such an act are great.  Imam Bukhari and Muslim have transmitted a hadith from our beloved Mother Hadhrat Aisha(radhiallahu anha) who said:
“If someone fell sick, the Prophet Peace and blessings upon him would pass his beloved hand over the sick person saying the following prayer: ‘O Allah! Lord of mankind, take away the suffering, bring about recovery, only your cure takes away illnesses’.”

An effort should be made to inform the pious as to the state of the person sick.  This is because the du’as of the pious never go in vain.  The whole experience of visiting the sick is full of reflection if carried out according to the sunnah.  Furthermore, only through illness can we truly appreciate good health from Allah.  Sickness is a means of cleansing from Allah as well as a test from Allah.  We pray to Allah to cure the sick amongst us and give us the ability to practice this sunnah of the Holy Prophet Muhammad Peace and blessings upon him.

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