WHAT IS ANGER.
ANGER AND WRATH.
IS ANGER LAWFUL OR NOT.
AT THE TIME OF ANGER.
SAYING OF PROPHET MUHAMMAD (
)
ABOUT
ANGER.
THE VIRTUES OF CONTROLLING ONES ANGER.
THE REMEDY FOR ANGER SHOWN BY OUR PROPHET MUHAMMAD (
)
CONCLUSION.
INTRODUCTION.
WHAT IS ANGER.
ANGER AND WRATH.
IS ANGER LAWFUL
OR NOT.
AT THE TIME OF
ANGER.
SAYING OF PROPHET
MUHAMMAD ()
ABOUT
ANGER.
THE
VIRTUES OF CONTROLLING ONES ANGER.
THE REMEDY FOR ANGER
SHOWN BY OUR PROPHET MUHAMMAD ()
CONCLUSION.
The aim and objective
to read this essay is to practice what you learn and follow the way shown
by our beloved Prophet Muhammad ( )
and not to become angry.
It is really common that a comment or criticism or someone behaving badly makes someone angry. Becoming angry immediately is natural but becoming angry is such a way that it goes beyond its limits is certainly blameworthy. This includes doing all the things that anger demands a person to do.
Each and everyone of us should know from which spiritual malady we suffer from and try our utmost best to get rid of our spiritual maladies.
From these spiritual maladies, there is one malady which is anger. This is when a person goes beyond their limits, and it is this very anger that causes great harm to a person in the World and surely in the Hereafter.
There are many people that suffer great hardships and sorrow throughout their lives because they carried out all the things that their anger demanded them to do. A common example is when the husband divorces his wife in the state of anger without even thinking what he is doing and in the end the consequence and result is only regret and hardships in this world and in the hereafter.
WHAT IS ANGER?
Anger is a secret weapon of man towards of evils but sometimes its
result’s in the destruction of many noble qualities. It snatches away the
wisdom of man and thus he becomes a brute beast devoid of any sense.
Anger is a temptation of shaytaan and deception of shaytaan
Anger is the root of all evils.
Anger is a spark of fire that are always bursting.
Anger is a very bad condition that weakens the person Iman (FAITH)
The meaning of anger is a rage fierce, displeasure, passion excited
by a sense of wrong , physical pain, inflammation, mad, hot tempered, choleric,
inflamed, A violent passion excited by real or supposed injury.
Anger is the strong feeling caused by extreme displeasure.
Anger is a strong feeling of annoyance, displeasure and hostility.
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ANGER AND WRATH.
When someone is angry, mad, and reaches a state of having wrath against
any person, he should make a special Du'a. In doing so he will cool down
. It is reported that the Messenger of Allah said ( narrated
by Sulaiman Ibn Sard and reported by Bukhari and Muslim ) that while Sulaiman
was with the Prophet ( ),
two persons were blaming each other. The face of one became red and his
jugular veins swelled. the Prophet ( )
said. I know a statement if he or she say's it then the person with anger
will cool down.
The person with anger should say : "I
SEEK REFUGE IN ALLAH FROM SATAN THE OUTCAST."
IS ANGER LAWFUL
OR NOT ?
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Anger is lawful in cases of religious affair's when its honours are
at stake. It is an effective preventive measure to safeguard the dignity
of man. A person who has no anger is called a coward because he has
got no true faith in Allah. The person fears the creation and not
the creator. This doesn't give the right for youngsters to become angry
with parents when they don't get what they want.
If a person doesn't practice Islam, a person disobeys the command of
Allah or a person doesn't listen to his parents then to become angry with
such a person can be lawful. But the person shouldn't become
too angry because in Islam extreme anger is unlawful because it creates
opposition and bitterness.
It is undesirable for a pious man to lose his temper, due to jokes,
frivolous talks, quarrels, criticism and greed for wealth.
The real strength of a man lies in controlling his wrath. i.e. Anger.
It is reported in a Hadith on the authority of Abu Huraira (Allah be
pleased with him) that the messenger of Allah (Mohammed ( )
Peace and blessing of Allah be upon him said :
It has been narrated by Abu Huraira (May Allah be pleased with him)
That Allah's Messenger Muhammad ( )
Said:
In another narration by Abu Huraira (May Allah be pleased with him man
said to the Prophet Muhammad ( )
Advise me.
The Prophet Muhammad ().
Said :
The man asked the same question again and again and the Prophet Muhammad
() Replied by
in case by saying:
“ Do not become angry and furious”
By looking from the advise given by our beloved Prophet Muhammad ()
we shouldn't become anger and furious. If we remember the advise and saying
of our beloved Prophet Muhammad (
)then the person becoming angry will control his anger.
But the youngsters of today have forgotten the teaching
of our Prophet Muhammad ()
there become angry and furious for small reason like if their
parent tell them to do something which their donut like there say to the
parent in anger that I donut what to do it like cleaning the house
or the toilet. So the best person is one who controls him self in anger.
Hadrat Anas: (Allah be pleased with him) reported that the messenger
of Allah ( Muhammad( )
said:
Who so takes up his tongue as treasure Allah will keep his secrets
concealed and who so restrains his anger Allah will with hold his
punishment on the resurrection day and who so ascribes excuse to Allah
will accept his excuse.
So by reading this we should refrain from becoming anger. Because
anger destroys one faith. The person in anger forgets where he is and says
anything which he regrets after.
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Today people are becoming angry because of the lifestyle and
the society we live in. When a person is under stress he or she tends to
become angry because the jobs not done or their children donut listen
to them. There become angry and the anger is taken out on the
child.
When a person becomes angry to their parent then that mean he's angry with Allah Paradise lies between your parent . If you treat them and help
them then Allah will reward you in this world and the hereafter. But if
you displeased your parent
this means you are displeasing Allah then the person will be
deprived from Allah's mercy. and the person will get punish in the hereafter.
The aim and objective of reading this is to practice what has been
written and refine from becoming angry. To become angry for Islamic reason
is permissible but it shouldn't cause anyone harm.
Women should control their anger. because anger effects everyone. So
anger is lawful for islamic reason and if ones hourner is at risk's.Other
then this Anger is not permissible.
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As humans beings, we have our our emotions. We react in either positive
or negative emotions. Sometimes we may lose our logic and we cannot control
our emotions. Hence, we behave in a strange way.
For those who lose control of their emotions and react negatively they
have to be advised in advance what to do in such a situation. Our
beloved Prophet ()
gave us a prescription that makes us control our negative behavior. By
using it, we will not show our anger and madness . Our blood pressure will
stay normal. All what it takes is that a person has to read the following
statement at the time of anger and wrath.:
" I SEEK REFUGE IN ALLAH FROM THE OUTCAST SHAITAN "
( THE WORD YOU HAVE TO READ IS IN ARABIC AND IT IS TAW'WAZ.)
From a personal experience, dealing with children fighting one another and with family counselling, this prescription has worked beautifully. I enencourage that we recite it loudly for at least three times at the time of anger . Allah will send special angels to protect us from the mischievous Shaitan. Remember what Allah said in Surah Fussilat
( This surah is in the 24th parah Ayat 36 in the holy Qur'ran ) the meaning is below ( Ayah 36):
" AND IF AN EVIL WHISPER FROM SHAITAN ( SATAN) TRIES TO TURN YOU AWAY (
OH MUHAMMAD()
( FROM DOING GOOD ), THEN SEEK REFUGE IN ALLAH. VERILY, HE IS THE
ALL-HEARER, THE ALL- KNOWER "
So the best person is one who controls himself in anger.
When a person is angry he should make wudu (Ablution ) ) and
then he should recite the verses from the Holy Qur'ran the anger
should have gone away. The person should prey Taw'waz (aeo zo billahi mnashayta
nirazam) and then prey ( Ayatul kursi) which is in the Holy Qur'ran . (
3rd para 2nd ruku )
Every person male or female should try to recite the Holy Qur'ran everyday
because by reciting the Holy Qur'ran it takes away the anger and the heart
will become clean.
Anger effects everyone it doesn't matter if the person is young, old,
male, and female. So one should try to control one’s anger. There is a
great reward given to the person who controls his anger.
May Allah give eveyone the abilty to practices upon the Qur'ran
and the way shown by our Prophet Muhammad ().
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SAYING OF PROPHET MUHAMMAD
( ) ABOUT
ANGER.
Allah's Messenger ( )Said
a Muslim is never allowed to stay angry with his Muslim brother over three
day's , because he who does that, then dies will go to hell ( FIRE ) .
( This is reported by Abu Dawood ) (Sahih Al - Jami ) ( page 7609).
The messenger of Allah (Prophet Muhammad (
says about anger:
“ Anger is the effect of shaytaan and shaytaan was created from fire.
And water extinguishes fire."
It is narrated in Bukhari that two people were arguing in the presence
of Rasulullah (
) One of the two became so angry that his face went red and his veins swelled.
Rasulullah ()
Lifted his face towards that person and said to him that I know a sentence
if you were to say it your anger will go away. The sentence is ( taw’wz
). The translation is as follows:
“ I SEEK ALLAH'S PROTECTION FROM THE CURSED DEVIL"
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THE
VIRTUES OF CONTROLLING ONES ANGER.
There are many virtues in Ahadeeth recarding a person who controls his
anger. In Tabraani . ( A book of Hadeeth ). It is narrated that Rasulullah
( )
Said : Who ever controls there temper Allah will take away punishment from
him and who so ever safe guard's his tongue Allah will conceal his sins.
In another Hadeeth which is narrated in (Tirmizi and Abu Dawood):
Rasulullah()
Who ever controls their temper in a state that if he wanted he could have
took revenge. Then On the day of judgement Allah will call him in front
of everyone and will give him the choice of picking the Hoor of his choice.
So by controlling your anger Allah will give the choice of picking any
Hoor from Paradise (Jannat). But today youngsters have forgotten
the world hear after and there are to indulge in this world that we have
forgotten the command of Allah and the way shown by our beloved Prophet
Muhammad () so
from now on we should change our lifestyle. And we should live our life
according to the way shown by our beloved Prophet
Muhammad ().
because success in this world and the hereafter lies in the command of
Allah and the way shown by our beloved Prophet Muhammad.().
May Allah gives us the ability to practice upon this ( Aamin ).
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THE REMEDY FOR ANGER
SHOWN BY OUR PROPHET MUHAMMAD ()
.
The remedy for anger is that when a person who is angry should control
his anger . In the Ahadith there are three way's shown to control ones
Anger. 1). is to say Ta'awwuz
2). is to doWudu (Abulution ) or drink water.
3). is to lie down on the floor
So when a person becomes angry he should perform ablution. Then the
person should lie down because when a person is lying he becomes humble
because this is the quality of the earth due to it being low and not bursting.
This is the opposite to fire which is the origin of shaytaan which results
to pride. When a person is lying down he is far from revenge and retaliation
then a person who is sitting is further then the one who is standing.
In reality anger is a spark of fire and its flames are always bursting.
The cure is that you extinguish
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The fire with water so that the evilness doesn't spread. i.e. by water
it means to make wudu(Ablution).
The person who is angry should make wudu.then the person should recite
the verses from the Holy Qur'ran which is (AYAH KURSI ) which is in the
(3rd para, 2nd ruku). by reciting the Holy Qur'ran the person with anger
it will cool him down because Anger is from shaytaan.
The person who is angry should be left alone to cool down and the above
remedy should be practiced .The anger should go away.
In the state of anger one should use the above mentioned remedy so
that he doesn't regret later.
Today I have written about anger and if anger is permissible or not.
Anger is only permissible for Islamic reason other then that anger is not
permissible. Anger effects everyone weather Young old male or female.Our
beloved Prophet Muhammad ()
has shown us a way to control ones anger so when someone is angry he should
follow the three way's shown in the Hadith.
The three way's shown in the ahaadith to control you temper and anger.is the following.:
NUMBER ONE : (1) To say ta'awuz.
NUMBER TWO : (2) To do wudu or drink water.
NUMBER THREE : (3) To lie down on the floor. Back
The above is the remedy for anger. Its like a person is ill he
takes medicine to get better . Like this when a person is angry he or she
should take the medicine givin by our Prophet Muhammad ( )
. May Allah give every person the ability to practice's upon this . ( Aamin).
Whosoever adopts these three qualities in his life Allah will shower
his mercy upon him .
1) Who thanks Allah for all his favour's.
2) When he has the strength to to forgive he forgives.
3) when he gets Angry he stay's quite and calms down.
So by looking at the Hadith's mention above we could see that the effect
of being anger is a bad thing the person is deprived of many benefits in
this world and the hear after
Just by controlling your anger Allah will give the person the pleasure
of picking a hoor from Jannat. (Paradise)
Anger is a very bad condition it destroy the person Iman (FAITH)
Anger is a cause of temptation and deception of shaytaan so every person
should not show
Anger to anyone. There's more harm in becoming angry and not controlling
the anger.
A person control his anger Allah will give him a choice of any Hoor
from Jannet (paradise).
This is the reward given by Allah to the person who control his anger
so may Allah give everyone the ability to control our anger and save us
from this satanic effects.
May Allah forgive our sin’s and give everyone the ability to practice
Islam and the straight path.
The path shown by our prophet Muhammad.()
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